I was watching the news on TV (Milwaukee Channel 4) just now and heard the name of a woman mentioned and that she had been killed on saturday while crossing the street. When the name was mentioned my brain registered it as being a familiar name. I looked on the internet and there was a story in the daywatch section of the online paper.
It turns out that the woman was Susan Bourassa who is one of my 2nd cousins who lived in Milwaukee.
I had not seen Sue in many years but knew her well as I was growing up. Her mother Anita was my mother's 1st cousin and they were more like sisters than cousins and so growing up I thought of Anita as my aunt and I thought of her daughters Sue, Kathy and Debbie as very cool older sisters.
I grew up in Wisconsin Rapids and through my youth our family would drive down to Milwaukee once every year or so to visit this wonderful family. It was always something I looked forward to and as I became a teenager and got my driver's licsence I would come down to Milwaukee to spend weekends visiting with them.
In the middle 90s I moved to Milwaukee and often visited with Anita and would be lucky to sometimes see some of my cousins as well. I remember there was also a young man who had lived in an apt. that was adjacent to Anita's for many years and I think his name was John as well. Anita and her daughters had taken this young man and made him a part of their family and treated him just like a son. I remember meeting him a few times but didn't know him too well.
Anita passed away just a year or so after my mom. I think it was in early 2000 or maybe 2001.
A few years ago I was in Milwaukee one afternoon at a Walmart store on 27th street, a few miles from where Anita and her girls lived when I was a kid. I was in one of the aisles when I heard my name being called from down the aisle way. I looked down the aisle and could not believe my eyes. There was this woman standing there and she looked just like my mom. My brain was registering very strange emotions at that point as I knew it couldnt be my mom as she had passed away a few years back. But at the same time the woman who was standing there looked just like my mom. Tears started welling up in my eyes and I walked slowly towards the woman.
She said "Are you John, Marlene's son??" to me...
And then I figured it out. It had to be one of Anita's daughters! It was Sue. The resemblence between her and my mother was unbelievable. We stood there and talked about old times and told each other we would try and stay in touch.
Unfortantely I had lost contact with her and her sisters (my cousins) and after hearing about the death of Sue just now, I need to get into contact with them to offer my condolances and share in their grief.
As the comments in the below article from the Journal say from my cousin Kathy while talking about Sue, she was one of the most wonderful and happy people I had ever met. I know that my mother and her mother are now welcoming her with open arms and taking care of her in heaven.
Article below courtesy of the Milwaukee Journal Sentinal Online
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SUNDAY, Feb. 10, 2008, 1:37 p.m.By
Jennie TunkieiczPedestrian killed in Greenfield identifiedThe woman struck and killed Saturday as crossed the street in Greenfield has been identified as Susan Bourassa, 53.Bourassa, of Greenfield, was walking through the intersection of S. 70th St. and W. Cold Spring Road when she was struck by a car shortly after 4 p.m.
The driver was a woman in her 40s. Greenfiled police were not releasing any further information today and said the incident remains under investigation.
"She had the biggest heart in the world," Kathy Bourassa said of her sister. "If you needed anything you could call her and she would help, no questions asked."
Susan Bourassa had previously worked at St. Luke's Hospital.
She loved to crochet and made hundreds of mittens and scarves for the needy each year and she also made afghans for friends, her sister said. She also loved animals, particularly her lovebird, Daisy Mae.
"She was one of the friendliest people in the world and was never in a bad mood," Kathy Bourassa said.
In addition to her sister, Kathy, she is also survived by her father, Gordon, another sister, Debbie, and a brother, John Schmidt.Funeral arrangements are pending.